Moving to a new town after a PCS can be daunting and the best way to meet new friends is to get connected quickly. Here are 4 ways to get connected:
1. Connect with Other Military Families
Social media provides a great outlet for military families to keep in touch with old friends and meet new ones. Join Facebook and start to connect with other military families in your area. Ask them if they want to meet for coffee or for a playdate. You will enjoy your time at your new duty station if you get out and get connected with other families. Feel free to join our private Facebook Group.
2. Explore your New Town
Research your new town and find things to do near your military base. Make a list of new restaurants you want to try or take your kids to all the different museums and local parks. In Part 1 of this series (link to part 1), we discussed having your kids make a list of the top 3 things they want to do in their new town, so now is the time to get out and try those new things with your kids. If you find the good things about your new town, you will have a brighter outlook about your move.
3. Volunteer
Research local charities and get involved. Not only does this help you meet friends, but it gives you a sense of self worth and accomplishment when you are helping others.
4. Start Finding Childcare
Don’t wait until you and your spouse need a date night to start looking for a babysitter. Start interviewing potential babysitters and find a good one at the beginning of your tour so you can use the sitter for date nights, a night out with friends or taking the time to volunteer.
Military moves can be difficult on everyone involved so make sure to take care of your spouse and your kids, but most importantly, remember to take care of YOU. If you are happy and find the good things about your new surroundings, your attitude will rub off on the rest of your family and everyone will be happier!
I hope you enjoyed our PCS Series. If you missed the other blog posts, you can read Part 1, Part 2, and Part 3.
