Benedictine College Preparatory in Richmond

Posted: March 26, 2024

Sending my boys to Benedictine has been one of the best decisions I have ever made as a parent. My boys are very different from each other and each gained life forming support and experiences at this school. The 100+ year old traditions form men of character and faith. They developed a brotherhood that is irreplaceable in their lives.
The military and religious program have brought out the best in both of them and their academics are excellent. Leadership has invested and continues to invest in their campus which is absolutely beautiful. Lastly, the administration and faculty truly cares about the boys and their lives, which has meant a tremendous amount to our family. Look into BCP, you wont regret it.

Posted: September 15, 2023

Truly exceptional learning community. The curriculum is tailored to how boys learn, and the school does an excellent job of fostering brotherhood and a strong faith in God. The experience shaped my boys into becoming confident young men.

Posted: July 11, 2022

Graduated here in 2017. To the person who said bullying is encouraged. That is just plain WRONG. The best way I can describe Benedictine is that its like a fraternity (without the drinking and partying, id be lying to say that it didn't happen in high school but not to the extent of a fraternity, normal high school amount of partying). Its like a fraternity in that your classmates are like your brothers. Brothers fight and pick on each other but at the end of the day they will have your back. Bullying does happen at this school, as it does at every school, but it is on par with other academic institutions. However, if one of your 'brothers' feel that you are being bullied they will look out for you. However, there is orientation which is considered a tradition at BCP. This is not bullying. Being a military school, they model themselves after the real military. Seniors are allowed to make freshman do pushups, walk on one side of the hall, do funny dances, make them propose to lunch ladies etc. Nothing too humiliating and all in good fun. This helps make a bond with your classmates (in hating the senior class together).

As to the person who said there is no military aspect to the school outside of the uniform. There is a strong military aspect to this school. This school helps make men out of boys. This school teaches Honor, discipline, respect, humility, etc. While it may not have the best military program (its not the best but very good) , it definitely teaches the core values of the military the best out of any military school in Virginia.

I will be sending my future children to Benedictine. There is not a better education in Virginia. Not only do they have a 99% acceptance rate into college, but they teach core values that no other school will dare teach in todays age. God forbid you make a child responsible for their actions at any other school.

Yes if you send your kid here they will have to do pushups if they're late for class but that's good for them! If you're late you're fired in the real world! I can not recommend this school enough.

Posted: June 23, 2022

Great school, really recommend. Great athletics great teaching and great brotherhood.

Posted: February 6, 2022

I am disappointed in the experience that my son had attending BCP. We had high hopes and were initially impressed. We had heard great things about BCP and were seeking a structured environment where our son would be held accountable as well as learn and thrive amongst the camaraderie. The teachers and discipline are inconsistent, with some being strict and military style and others ignoring their classes and having little control over the students. I would hear frequent stories of fighting, bullying and random antics that seemed more fit for a fraternity house than a well-respected military school. Fighting seems to be almost encouraged, as in a boys will be boys attitude. Its almost like a different world with their own set of standards and norms. Values are skewed and kids whose families give the most monetarily are not held to the same standards as the average student. On a positive note, the coursework is challenging which had been lacking in my sons public school. He was able to gain good study habits and started taking academics more seriously than he had previously in public schools. I have felt less than supported on more than one occasion when staff were slow to respond or never responded at all to emails or phone calls. I really wanted to love it, but unfortunately it did not live up to the standards we had hoped for.

Posted: February 6, 2022

Posted: November 11, 2019

My son just recently graduated from Benedictine. He transferred in from public school his second year. This school, literally, changed his life. He had been living under an IEP since 2nd grade, and by high school was begging for opportunities to prove that he was "capable". The schools would never give in, and so he requested to transfer to BCP. After his first year, he was able to take honors and AP classes, and he excelled. He had to work really hard, but the teachers supported his efforts. The leadership opportunities and life experiences at BCP aren't available in any other local public OR private school, and the camaraderie between the students is indescribable. I noticed in one review that they felt bullying was a part of BCP's "tradition". That is simply untrue. No one in leadership or in the faculty would tolerate bullying, and the student body as a whole wouldn't either. There is no such thing as "perfect", but BCP could not have been more perfect for my son. When I said that it changed his life, it literally did. Public schools were telling him that "college may not be right for you" and would only let him take regular and remedial classes. He graduated from BCP with highest honors, summa cum laude, with multiple college acceptances and tens-of-thousands of dollars in scholarship offers. He is now excelling in a very difficult and challenging college, and it's because of everything he learned at BCP: study habits, leadership skills, integrity, and perseverance. None of these skills would he have gained at any other high school. If you want to give your son the best access to a promising future, then BCP is really your only true choice.

Posted: November 6, 2019

My son's experience has helped him develop stronger work habits, better leadership skills, and positive relationships with others. He is more confident and more capable of solving problems. He loved the balance of academics and fun that Benedictine offered him. Coming from a large public middle school, my son thrived in the small, all-boys setting. The school helped him in every way he hoped it would.

Posted: November 6, 2019

Being able to review every subject nightly as opposed to every other night helps reinforce concepts in an effective manner, making recall easier and more consistent. Homework assignments are appropriate to what was learned that day in class.

Posted: November 6, 2019

Posted: October 13, 2019

BCP has been an outstanding experience for my son. The all boys military format has allowed him to excel academically and develop leadership skills he would never have had at a public school.

Posted: October 13, 2019

Posted: May 9, 2018

There is no difference in instruction. Classes utilize minimal technology and teach using the same standard teaching practices that were utilized years ago.

Posted: May 9, 2018

This school encourages bullying. It is looked at as "school tradition".

Posted: May 9, 2018

Although school leaders do not always exemplify these characteristics they do demand this of the students who attend. Now it depends on how much your parents invest as to how much they demand of you.

Posted: May 9, 2018

Leadership is very one dimensional and is not equipped to deal with anything out of the norm.

Posted: May 9, 2018

Benedictine is not very diverse in their practices, population or the way they interact with their students or parents. There are few educational opportunities outside of the campus. Students are given limited to no opportunities to take dual enrollment classes. Most teachers teach the same. There is not room for uniqueness via cultural or learning style.

Posted: May 9, 2018

Most of the teachers are pleasant and invested in the kids.

Posted: March 18, 2017

Benedictine is an outstanding place for a young man to grow. Plain and simple, they build boys into men. No other school in the Richmond area offers strong academics (with a focus on science/engineering), winning athletic programs, military tradition, and moral direction at this great of a value. Benedictine is a private college preparatory school, just like Saint Christopher's and Collegiate. The end goal of sending our son to a private school, at least in our opinion, is to let him build character and get into a great university. Benedictine sends kids to Ivy League schools, Duke, Navy, West Point, Stanford, Georgia Tech, UVa, VT, and Notre Dame routinely and is the nation's top feeder school for VMI. So why pay twice as much to send him to another private school where he won't get the unique military discipline/tradition angle and he'll most likely end up losing to his friends who end up at Benedictine in sports? We didn't, we sent our boy to Benedictine, and he'll graduate this year as a well rounded young man heading to a top 25 university. It's been a great choice!

Posted: September 4, 2016

As a parent, I could not be happier with Benedictine. My son has enjoyed it so much and I love that he has 200+ close friends. The "brotherhood" among the Cadets is like nothing you will find at any other school and that has helped build a very strong group of alumni. The teachers are kind and helpful, far beyond anything we saw at much more expensive private schools. Send your boy there, you won't regret it.

Posted: August 11, 2016

Benedictine is a unique place that has truly been amazing for our son. He is able to excel in academics and athletics with the support of the faculty, administration, and his fellow Cadets. This is not a "hardcore" military school for problem kids like Fork Union or Hargrave, so if you're looking to straighten out issues with your son this is not the place for you. The military program is much more like an extracurricular activity that helps build leadership skills than it is a program to "break" students of bad behavior. To this same point, it is not a "rich-kid" elitist school either. The student body is one of the most socioeconomically and racially diverse of any of the "Big Three" private schools/school groups (STC/St.Cat, Collegiate, and BCP/St.Gert). There is no pressure like at the other Big Three schools to donate or else risk your son not receiving equal treatment to the sons of major donors or "13 year students" (our son went there for lower school). The students are down to earth and so are the parents, even the "FFV" and CCV types, which has been a very welcome change for our family. The camaraderie among the Cadets is second to none and you can see that in the alumni classes as well. Meet anyone around town who attended Benedictine and I guarantee they will gush about the school and how much they loved it. Your son will be a part of an amazing alumni network that will put him in good opportunities for life without becoming a spoiled "elitist".

The athletics (esp. Basketball, football, wrestling, and baseball) have always been top-notch but now the academics have come around to be top-end as well. Over the past five years the students have been matriculating to major universities (Ivy League, Duke, Vanderbilt, UVA, VT, Notre Dame, etc.), which was not always the case. They now are sending graduates on to the same schools every year as the other Big Three schools, and for almost half the tuition cost. A lot of this is due to the new campus, we believe. The facilities are second to none which has attracted great young teachers (while still keeping some great educators who have been teaching there 10, 20, or 30+ years) and allows for more exciting learning in STEM. The religion program does not hinder education or free-thinking and it has always helped our son grow in his non-Catholic Christian faith. We are very happy with our choice. Go Cadets!

Posted: August 11, 2016

Posted: February 15, 2016

We have been extremely disappointed in our son's experience at BCP. The discipline we were hoping he would experience at a Catholic military school is nonexistant. Beyond the wearing of a uniform, there is no military aspect to this school. My other son participated in JROTC at a local public high school and the standards in that program were ten fold what BCP holds their cadets to. We visited the school on numerous occasions before enrolling him and all of the talk of disciple and the high standards was clearly lip service. Demerits given out for tardiness, uniform infractions and even behavior are never served. Our son has received 12 demerits thus far for minor issues and was dismissed from serving every single one. We had spoken with him at length about how he would need to be more accountable at BCP, take pride in his school and his work etc and the lack of discipline has just enforced his view that these things don't matter, that no one cares what you do. "this isn't a real millitary school Mom, they don't care".
Our son has never been a disciple problem and still isn't but we felt like he needed to learn that accountability is key to suceess. All his experience at BCP has done is reinforce his belief that we don't know how it is in the world today.
I would also like to add that we have many family members that are alumni at BCP and it is NOT the school it once was. That is for certain. We had also heard from two friends whose son's had attended BCP for one year with terrible experiences. We chose to discount those reviews because we do believe that every child is different and because of family member's experience's in the past (although distant past) We were so wrong to do that. When college educated parents with good kids give you the feedback, you should probably listen. That's our takeaway and I hope it will be yours. If you are looking for a military school with great academics and athletics, I suggest you choose Fork Union. My husband is an alumni so we have experience there and BCP is night and day from Fork Union.

Posted: August 22, 2015

Some of these reviews are whiny and quite frankly some seem bogus. Is Benedictine for every young man? No. We don't doubt that some families have had negative experiences because there is no perfect institution, teacher, administrator, student or parent for that matter. Of course there is room for improvement and from what we have experienced, we have never gotten the impression that anyone in the administration is dismissing that reality. We do live in an egocentric society so it's easy to see how some parents would feel slighted if they did not receive enough attention or if their son were not the star athlete, scholar or Cadet.

We read some of these reviews before we enrolled our son at BCP and we would encourage you to take a tour, contact current Cadets, or set up an appointment to meet with an administrator to gain more insight. If you are not Catholic (which we are not), you may possibly be offended by some elements of the Christian faith. Additionally, if you don't support a more strict environment for teen boys ---this may not be a good fit for your family.

One reviewer said that, "The camaraderie among the students is the only good thing about this school." Quite frankly, that was one of the major reasons why we sent our son to BCP so that he COULD form life-long friendships. That will prove to be much more fulfilling and vital than any grade or athletic achievement.

Life is tough and boys need to learn to cope with challenging environments and with unpleasant circumstances that life brings to all of us. We view this experience as a huge blessing on many different levels and most importantly, our son wants to be there. After finishing his Freshman year, he is confident with his decision to attend Benedictine College Preparatory.

Posted: July 8, 2015

The camaraderie among the students is the only good thing about this school. The academics are eroding under the current poor leadership. Athletics will be next; there is no gym at the "new" facility. Rumor has it that the JROTC program is on the chopping block.

Posted: May 12, 2015

I have nothing but great things to say about this school. The school has totally allowed my child to excel in academics, leadership and sports. This school holds the boys and faculty accountable for their actions and I think a lot of the negativity is from people who do not agree with this philosophy. I can honestly say that my child is ready to be an asset to society because of what he learned at this school.

Posted: October 11, 2014

Benedictine is not the same school it once was. The current headmaster and the present "board" are not qualified to be in the positions in which they are in. The board has parents with kids at competing schools; no current parents sit on the board and many of the board members do not even show up at ANY events throughout the school year. The headmaster has NO Advanced education degree and a VERY Limited background in education...not even close to enough to warrant running a once-prestigious school as Benedictine. He does't engage alumni and thinks fundraising is unnecessary. Headmaster lives in a million dollar home, all the while pleading poverty for the school. Benedictine has NO gym and has no plans for one...you kind of have to fundraise for that. Communication is NONEXISTENT -- doesn't engage current parents and no alumni events. The board and the administration are all YES MEN. Academics are extremely limited which most of the teachers not having any teaching certifications or qualifications. Headmaster (who replaced a man who was qualified to run the school) gets rid of teachers from prior administrations, who actually are more qualified than he is to run the school.

Posted: September 13, 2014

Honestly all of these parents writing responses can't give you a full inside review of what our school is ACTUALLY like. I'm tired of these bad reviews that give us a bad name. My teachers are some of the most committing I've ever had (and k-8 I went to public school), they're willing to stay with you after school and they'll work with you as much as they can to help you keep your grades up and fully understand a topic. Also, even though many people and students aren't very fond of our current headmaster, he disciplines us and helps us become better me all the while working to get more donations to build things such as a new gym to continue to famous Benedictine legacy. Our sports are superior to almost every other school and the orientation brings you much closer to your fellow classmates. I can be 100% honest when saying that in 2 years Benedictine has made me much more stronger mentally as have I progressed tremendously in my Christian faith. Benedictine isn't easy to survive, but it's worth it in the end. I love my highschool.

Posted: August 10, 2014

The board and current headmaster are the reason my son (current alumni with a middle school-aged kid) will not be attending my alma mater. They feel the need to plead poverty while purchasing a million dollar home for the headmaster to reside in. Very dismissive of alumni and current parents who provide constructive criticism. Board members have children at competing schools....

Posted: June 21, 2014

Tried to get my child in this school, they wouldnt give him a chance. My kid plays basketball, football and baseball. The high school that he was leaving didnt give him a chance so when they found out he was leaving they bad mouth him to benedictine. He never fail he would've went into Benedictine with 19 credits, My son is a senior, I wanted to reclass him because hes only sixteen, thinking this school would help him. Never got in trouble.

Posted: June 10, 2014

I must disagree with the negative comment below. This school was an answer to our prayers. Our son struggled academically throughout elementary and middle school. He has done nothing but thrive at Benedictine. His self confidence has improved tremendously and his academic sucess cannot be measured. Sure he has had his bad days but all kids do. Most teachers are very responsive and helpful. My son has been spiritually, academically and athletically.

Posted: December 21, 2013

The school is poorly run. They have an orientation that demeans newcomers; the teachers are not committed to your child, all behaviors that contribute to poor self esteem. The teachers are quick to place children on academic probation and does not offer any help or program that gets them from their to success, thereby contributing and creating in your child poor self esteem and negative psychological development. Their "so called" military program is fake at best, does not hold the students accountable for anything which is also damaging to the child. The only thing the school is consistent and strong in is their catholism program (that we were not interested in), collecting and fund raising. They have no real process or methods for developing any integrity, character, or academic skills in a child who comes there in need. If you meet a minority child who has gone through their program, they cannot confidently look you in the face, give you a firm handshake, or engage in a conversation because they lack confidence to do so.

Posted: December 21, 2013

If the school gives you financial aid; because you have limited funds; and no money for a tutor; and your child is not sharpest knife in the drawer, BE WARE! Is not in compliance with the NCLB law and is unable to bridge the gap from failure to success. He will struggle and become unmotivated. Will receive no extra help from the teachers if he really doesn't really need go to school because knows everything, by all means enroll him. Otherwise, save yourself money and frustration by looking a public magnet program that offers an advance placement (AP), credit recovery, up to date math, science, and technology curriculum, and you have the added benefit of extra money for a tutor. The military aspect is window dressing at its best. He will be demeaned as a freshmen and treated with disdain. The school's claims to "build men of conscience" in reality build "men no conscience," thereby contributing to poor self-esteem, lack of confidence, hopelessness and juvenile delinquency. Finally, if you are not catholic and don't want catholism emphasized, He will learn it or fail. The school is a wolf dressed in sheep's clothing. BEWARE!!!

Posted: May 18, 2012

Academically the school is strong in many areas, but is very hit-or-miss in areas such as math and science. Technology education is virtually non-existent. There is a great interest in "recruiting" strong athletes under the guise of giving lower socio-economic students a chance at a better education. While i am happy that the student body is diverse racially and socio-econonically, I feel that the interest in having a strong sports program is too great. When my son was looking at high schools i was apprehensive about a catholic military school, but i was assured that theology and leadership were at the core of these two aspects of the school. Unfortunately I have found that with the current administration this is not the case. My son has been taught that catholicism is the superior religion and that their conservative dogma is what he should believe. This goes against most of the beliefs of our family. Also, the military program does not teach the leadership characteristics that we value as a family. It teaches the military leadership ideals of do as you're told, then if you are willing to suck up to the cadre you will reach the highest level of leadership within the corps.

Posted: October 13, 2011

Once upon a time I would have heartily recommended this school, but it's most recent incarnation has been a sad letdown. The school claims to have excellent academics, but that is not the reality. Course offerings are meager at best, and the methods and resources are woefully outdated. Their "classical" model is more suited to a medieval monastery than the modern world. For example, the choices for foreign languages are Latin and Spanish - nothing more. The technology department offers one elective, website design, which is there to provide time for their one technology person to update the school website. At the moment (Fall 2011), they don't even have an on-site senior guidance counselor or a full-time nurse (the nurse they have splits her time providing administrative help to their advancement office). Not a lot for $15K a year. Many of the faculty are very dedicated and qualified, but they've been stretched and abused by the new administration. The new headmaster is oblivious and aloof to the student body and seems more interested in hobnobbing with wealthy would-be patrons and boosting his own marketability. It can change, but it will mean a change at the top.

Posted: February 22, 2011

Benedictine is a top-notch school unlike any other in the Richmond area. It is full of rich tradition and offers valuable and excellent academics and athletics. The character and camaraderie that thrives in the school as a result of the military aspect and the religious influence is a unique experience that develops young men of discipline. My son loves it and is proud to go there.The current headmaster, Jesse Grapes, is the finest of examples for the students, and his vision for the future of the school is one that is easy to rally behind. We have been pleased with our experience.

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